Vindictiveness reigns supreme!

So as readers of this blog know, I was in Exodus until I had a falling out with a couple of my fellow officers. Not all of them, just a few, but it seems as those few (or one in particular) holds a grudge like I’ve not seen in an adult in a long time. Sad. I logged onto their vent last night as some of my friends in Exodus (yes, I still have quite a few friends there believe it or not) and I were doing a few instance runs together. I’d been on their vent server before since I quit the guild and it didn’t seem to be an issue. Others who have actually been kicked out of the guild are still allowed on the server, so we figured no big deal, right? Guess again. Seems some people just can’t let things go and leave others alone. Even though nothing I was doing affected her in any way, she banned me from the server. Was I doing anything wrong? Nope. The reason given for the ban was simply because it was me. LOL

Seems a few of the officers hold a grudge because of what I wrote here previously about them. I didn’t say anything that wasn’t true, whether they admit it or not but guess its too hard for them to admit there were valid issues. Was I partly to blame for what happened? Sure, I could have handled things better. I could have stayed calmer when confronting them about some of the issues I had. Yes, I was going through some personal issues at the time that made me a little wiggy, but that doesn’t change what I saw happening or the validity of the complaints I and others had.

I guess what bothers me the most is that no one saw fit to try and work things out, to try and discuss the issues that I saw or whatever issues they were having with me. That would have been the grown up thing to do. But they took the cowardly way out, and still do. Oh, they have no problem talking about me to others and badmouthing me. I’ve heard what they’ve been saying from several different people. But talking to me seems to be out of the question. Go figure.

Just kind of sad to see people I once considered friends to be like this.